Dream Jobs

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Only nine percent of people have their dream jobs.  NINE percent, how crazy of a number is that?  I grew up in a Malayalee household, this means my parents are from Kerala, India.  I grew up being told to look for a job with stability.  Available options included becoming a doctor, nurse or engineer.  Anything else was simply inadequate.  I bit the bullet and told my parents I wanted to be a business major, they were not happy but they accepted my decision and even pay for my college.  I am incredibly grateful in this regard because I know so many people who are forced to study something they do not like.

With this being said, I’ve recently changed my major to Corporate Communications, a field I find myself incredibly excited to learn more and more about.  At the same time, I am constantly met by opposition.  The funny part is that this doesn’t even really come from my parents, but my friends who have chosen to take the traditional path for my culture.

One of my closest friends is studying Pharmacy in a six year program, something that is incredibly grueling and difficult to pursue.  She is currently in her sixth year and pushing forward.  Because of her major she knows that she doesn’t get that much free time during the week.  She knows that she doesn’t even have much time to spend with friends because she needs to study.  But the prospect of such amazing job security and stable income is enough to fuel her through the remaining four to five years of college that she has left.

Because she is a close friend of mine, we talk together about things like our majors.  And because she is a good friends, she tries to be honest with me.  The way she sees it, of course I should try to get a job I will like but I should find some sort of middle ground.  Meaning a job that I can see myself doing, maybe not loving, but a job that can give me a steady and secure source of income.  Student loans are no joke and four years is a long time to waste.

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The fact of the matter is that I know that money does’t in fact guarantee my happiness.  Just as the little info graphic above shows.  Right now I’d rather take the risk and try to get a job in a major that is incredibly competitive than give up on my dreams for the secure road.  If I was meant for the secure road I would have gone to medical school a long time ago and pushed myself to get through.  But I know that wouldn’t make me happy, in fact I believe it would make me feel miserable.

The thing is that God created me just as I am for a reason.  I am Nina.  I like certain things and dislike others.  The entire world of incredibly diverse and different people who are not all meant to doctors and engineers.  In fact some of them really are made to do that, and I am happy that they are passionate about helping people and building things.  But this mold is not a one size fits all kind of thing.

I might change the way I feel about this by the time I graduate but right now I refuse to major in something I do not love.  I want to take classes in which I take notes because I want to, not just because we have a final coming up.  I want to learn about things that will actually impact who I am as a person and who I want to be.  Majoring in Corporate Communications will do that for me.

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College Tips: Commuter Students

It’s that time of the year again and this time I’m a sophomore so I’ll have the opportunity to actually impart knowledge on some of you freshies out there!

First a little background on my college situation.  I go to a commuter college in the city and had lived at these new dorms at my college.  Even these were normally 30 minutes away from “campus” and I’ve had the experience of doing my 1-2 hour commute from home over the summer.  I thought it would be fun to just share some tips I wish someone told me coming into college and maybe help some of you freshies who may have been scared for college like I once was.
Please feel free to comment with questions, I almost always respond and actually love giving advice for things like this.  Now unto the tips!

Avoid Private Loans

I cannot explain to you how shocked I was when I realized how much 6% interest on my loan for my dorms cost me already.  As well as how shocked I was to read an article in the Wall Street Journal about this women so crippled by loans and unable to get a job in her desired career that she was putting off having children.  What? I’m happy that my college is cheap enough where I don’t need to take out a loan but if you need to do so, avoid private loans and look into financial aid, government grants, scholarships and public loans fast.  You don’t want the weight of college loans stopping you from living your life once you actually graduate.

Carry a lightweight laptop or an ipad

I never understood those people who commuted and dragged 15 inch laptops to school.  Your back will break.  I carry around an 11 inch Macbook air and barley feel it.  Plus having a laptop that is lightweight is an easy way to carry a ton of information in one tiny place.  I’d recommend an ipad if you want to avoid carry anything at all.  If you buy a stencil you’ll be able to actually write notes for classes like math on your ipad.

Additionally you can always buy gadgets that will give your ipad a keyboard making it easier for classes you may need to write lots of essays or papers for.  If you don’t feel comfortable shelling out a minimum of $1000 for a Mac, turn to a smaller size HP.  An 11 inch HP actually isn’t that heavy and netbooks can be very cheap and lightweight.  That’s what I’d like to call the best of both worlds.

Join a InterVarsity club/organization!

Some of the best friends I’ve made in college have either lived with me at the dorms or were in a club with me.  And considering if you’re commuting, your classes can be really difficult to make friends in at times.  Most of the time in commuter schools people are racing from class to class.  Clubs are a great way to meet people with similar interests to you and form some sort of community.  And if you’re in the RIGHT clubs, sometimes your eligible for early registration depending on your college.

Find ways to enjoy your commute

On average my commute is and hour and a half.  That means I spend 3 hours each day just traveling.  If you’re spending that much time traveling enjoy it as much as you can.  I started listening to podcasts, catching up on sleep on the train, reading and even doing some homework.  I’ve come to the point that sometimes I enjoy going home alone because I want the time of solitude and peace to either prepare myself for a long day of school or unwind and relax before hitting the hay.  I’m literally one of the those people who spend all day in school.  I just think it’s easier to get work done and fun to see who I can run into once I’m there.

Take an average of 15 credits or 5 classes

Any more or less and you’ll be either really bored or struggling.  I took 16 credits first semester and was fine so I thought taking 18 credits would be a great idea.  I ended up feeling really stressed and doing a lot of things really poorly instead of a few things really well.  Also keep in mind most people want to graduate in 4 years.  So if you’re one of these people, be on top of your stuff and make sure your taking enough credits in the right classes.

Be Organized

Depending on your college, sometimes you really are just a number.  Your professor won’t be making sure you hand everything in time, that’s up to you.  You ultimately do as well as you’re willing to do.

Stand Out

Make it a point to talk to your professors either at the beginning or end of class, better yet both.  There will be a time when you’ll need a letter of recommendation and with the number of faces your professor sees on a daily basis you’ll really want to stand out.  Back in high school I didn’t have to think twice when I needed a letter from a teacher.  But there’s already been a time where I’ve needed a letter of recommendation and needed to really scratch my brain for a professor who I knew would remember be.  Don’t be placed in a situation where you can’t think of anyone.

So that’s really all I can think of right now.  And just a very brief list at that, if you think you’d be interested in a post about faith in college please let me know.  It’s something I’ve been thinking about writing.  And if you’d like me to touch base on other aspects, again let me know.

Have a great and blessed day!

Neeners