I think most guys have heard that girls plan their wedding day from as far back as they have enough cognitive reasoning to think. I’m not one of those girls. So many times I’ve been tempted to let my mind imagine and delve into all the wonderful possibilities. But I stop myself because I know that a wedding is just one day. And that the marriage that comes from it is far more important.
However, there are some things I need in order to have my dream wedding, hopefully my demands aren’t crazy.
1. God fearing man
I find it so funny how some girls will go on for hours about the location, colors and ambiance of their wedding and forget to marry someone good! I remember telling one of my friends that I just wanted to marry someone completely in love with God. She looked at me kinda weird and said that I should be careful of those guys, they may be a little crazy. But the way I see it, God is the center of my life. He is my moral compass and my everything. So why not marry someone who loves God as I do?
I’ve always loved the colors red and white because it looks so classy and simple. I wish I could have a small wedding but I have way to many relatives to ever wish to do that. But I can keep things simple.
3. Lace wedding dress
I don’t know what is about lace. It just looks so refined and so classy. I would of course need a sari too, but maybe a lace dress for the actual wedding itself would be nice. And white looks really nice against my burnt chocolate complexion.
4. People I love
I want to be around people who actually care about me and my well being. People who smile and pictures and are actually really happy. People I’m happy to spend my day with. I promised my aunt I’d get married in India if she couldn’t come to America. I want her there.
I want to start off my married life draped in blessings! Is that a little selfish?