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This post isn’t all too relevant to people who aren’t big on competitions…or who don’t go to my church!  But I decided to post about it anyway because there are so many people who I think might benefit from this.

I used to think that competitions in church were horrible, when I wouldn’t win in topics like memory verse or bible quiz or singing or ANYTHING when I was younger, it was really discouraging.  I felt as though since I didn’t win then I would never win and it made me never want to participate in competition again.

I won’t lie and say I outgrew my childish fears, but on Saturday I honestly just refused to take the bible quiz given to us because I thought I would lose.  And I memorized the bare minimum number of memory verses because I thought I would lose.  I was wrong.

For the topics that I was good in: essay, speech & singing [well…now for singing and still that’s up for debate].  It was really encouraging, it gave me a chance to practice my talents to see what I was good at and feel confident in my abilities.  I remember public speaking for my first REAL time outside of school [besides presentations and etc. ] and I was so nervous that I was honestly HORRIBLE! I just kept thinking about the fact that if that was the first time I ever spoke in public, I probably would have never let myself go through that experience again.  But I was lucky,  I was given the opportunity to try public speaking in my church and build up my talent and then finally compete.

At the end of the day I think competition can be either pointless or extremely beneficial, it all just depends on your outlook.  If you’re the person who did bad in a topic once and then refuses to participate in it again [like me…] then your going to hate competition.  I’m not going to lie to you, your going to gain nothing and in the end waste your time by showing up.  BUT if you’re the type of person who grows from your mistakes, and tries to learn from them, who doesn’t care so much about the prize but how you can grow, then competition is amazing!

I make it a point now to ask people whenever I go on stage, what I can do to make myself better.  Sometimes it can be hard to receive critique, but without it, you leave the same way you came.  I may never memorize a million trillion verses or memorize every fact in the bible for competition  [or for myself], but I can try.  Just as Luke 18: 27 reads “Jesus replied ‘What is impossible with men is possible with God.’ “.

Today I want you change your outlook.

See you tomorrow,

Nina

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